i had wanted to tell you this over skype. i wanted to give you a reply. i wanted to be able to help you over this. i just didn’t know what to do when you told me to let you go. you have broken my heart over and over and over and over and over again. i will persevere, but as for now, this is the most i can do for you. i’ll always be by your side, and i’ll silently edge you on. jiayou. (:
i just want to tell you these three words: let it go.
No, i’m not telling you to be Elsa, I’m telling you to start living life to its fullest, and stay happy. No matter what it is, no matter what you do, always remember that there are people around you who love you so much and don’t ever wish for you to hurt yourself like that by bringing unhappiness upon yourself. Happiness is a choice, and I hope you’ll choose it. stop the puking, stop the thoughts of cutting, stop all these thoughts of wanting to run away from me. unless you wish for me to disappear, because it seems like apart from unhappiness, i’ve brought you nothing. and if me disappearing will make you happier, i will gladly choose that path. i wouldn’t want to see my baby upset, would i? (: and baby, don’t you think that being too perfect is overly monotonous? Why would i want someone who is perfect- why are you seeking that perfection? i’m not perfect myself so who am i to look for someone perfect? and who am i to judge if a person is perfect or not? why would i want someone who doesn’t give me problems? would i not be happy with someone who is imperfect like me? i have problems too, and i unload them a lot on you, so why shouldn’t i let you unload them on me?
i just really thought i didnt have to go through the same amount of heart pain, at least not in the near future. oh how mistaken i had been. it came sooner than expected.
it is never a good idea to smash your head against the wall when you are angry.
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